The screenshot of an email. Click it to enlarge and read. I stay on the mailing list but I am no friend. The "please give" links both go to Tarryl Clark's website's contribution page. Not anything separate, so if you give you know it's directly not indirectly to Clark. Yet, if birds of a feather flock together, the distance between Tarryl Clark and me has lengthened a bit. Not a lot. I can separate who one is from who one accepts assistance from. And the Clark choices are hers to make, not mine.
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